Wednesday, May 8, 2013

You Are Cordially Not Invited



Once again, the North Allegheny School District has infuriated me.  For a district that touts its own excellence every chance it gets, yet has turned out hundreds of kids who cannot tell non-digital time, I am usually just not impressed.  Every so often, though, this district makes me irate.  This is one of those times.  

The following letter is addressed to the Superintendent, and I will cc: the school principals, as well as the school board.  Any corrections or tweaks would be appreciated before I send it.





Dear Dr. Gualtieri;

As a parent of an eighth-grade girl at Marshall Middle School, I have a concern I would like to discuss with you at your convenience.  As you know, the eighth grade is studying the Holocaust, its history and culture.  Part of this unit included a field trip to Pittsburgh’s Jewish Film Festival.  This field trip, however, was by the English teacher’s invitation only.  The criteria for this invitation were not shared with the students.  My daughter surmises that an A for the prior nine-week grading period was required (since last grading period she received the second B of a middle school career consisting of solid A’s).  During class, individual students were called into the hall by the English teacher, returning with sheets of paper detailing their upcoming excursion.    I assume that at least one adult at Marshall in charge of this activity could imagine how a student would feel as his/her friends are tapped for inclusion (shades of sorority rush) while not being chosen him/herself.   Further, I am guessing that at least one adult has read that earnest anti-bullying credo posted in the office, which ends with “We will make sure each student feels included.”  For the sheer hypocrisy, I do request that this sign is taken down.

Later that week, after a flurry of permissions slips back and forth, my daughter’s chorus class (and I do so wish it was a math class, so I could be even more furious) ground to a halt as, by her estimate, two-thirds of the eighth grade gathered in the auditorium for further discussion of their educational junket, which was followed by a speaker my daughter thinks might have been a Holocaust survivor (though she obviously isn’t sure).  Of course, this wasted class period does not compare to the wasted academic day, when most of her classmates were off-site.  Yesterday was the Great Film Festival Expedition for the Chosen Few.  All she really had to say about it was that she tried to be interested when her friends chattered about their day after they returned to school, but that it was hard to do so. 

I wanted to contact you weeks ago.  My daughter forbid me to, because, as she said, a) “I want my English teacher to like me” (surprisingly, I had the wisdom to not reply, “Too late for that”) and b) “I don’t want to be the kid who gets to go because her mother made a big fuss.”  I am contacting you now, mostly to ask if the adults in the North Allegheny School district simply suffer from a complete lack of judgment or if instead they sport a pretty wide mean streak that they use to work through their own issues from their student days. 

I’ll leave to you the irony of ghettoizing the Uninvited, while taking the Favored out on the town, in pursuit of Holocaust education.

Sincerely,

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